
The most beautiful face I've ever known, belongs to my
eighty-seven-year-old grandmother. Each time I see her, I am
struck anew by the depth of her loveliness. The joy in her
journey, her struggles with sorrow, the threads of wisdom
she's bent down and picked up along the way, are present in
each line of time upon her face.
How could anything -
ever - be more beautiful?
We're taught to dread
wrinkles and sags and softening of the skin - the inevitable
proof of the time we've spent here on earth. Yet, the more
time we put in, the more reason we find to celebrate each
passing year. Character is forged, integrity strengthened and
gratitude becomes a feeling so deep the word no longer conveys
a strong enough meaning.
I don't see an aging,
forty-something face when I look in the mirror. I see a person
growing 'into' her face, finally beginning the process of
filling it out. At long last, she's figured out what her
convictions are and has built up enough strength to live
them.
The best of youth is gone. The best of here is
now, and the best of aging is yet to come.
Fresh and
new, the face of youth is a blank canvass. It is through the
physical brushstrokes of aging that a masterpiece is
created.
Terri
McPherson