Introduction

Dictionaries fail to provide a full understanding of the meaning of a word. They tend to provide indicators of meaning more than meaning itself. Because most words carry a great deal of emotional content, it is nearly impossible to convey all of the meaning in a definition, no matter how many additional and specific definitions are added.

In fact, most words function more like wheelbarrows carrying such a load of individual memories and experiences that the real effect of a word simply cannot be conveyed, only hinted at.

Some words carry even more “baggage” than others. Read the dictionary definitions of words like love, kiss, mother, death, and hate; then, ask yourself, “Is this really what the word means?” Temptation is such a word.

Journal: How would you define temptation?

Your understanding of temptation and how it works directly relates to your experiences with temptation. Even in its dictionary definition, it suggests a wide possibility of meaning.

tempt [from the Latin temptare, to touch, feel, attack, attempt, urge, excite, tempt] 1: to entice to do wrong by promise of pleasure or gain: allure into evil: SEDUCE 2: obs : to put to the test: make trial of : PROVE 3: to induce to do something: attract or allure to an act : INCITE, PERSUADE, PROMPT; 4: to venture on: to risk the dangers of
(Merriam Webster's Dictionary)

What is Temptation?

Confused by these definitions? Probably. We normally think of temptation in a negative light, as in definitions 1 and 2. It isn't easy to think that temptations may be good things, as in definitions 3 and 4. More often than not, however, temptation is synonymous with seduction, that is, to persuade someone to do something against his or her will. It is normally harmful to the person who does it and to the persons to whom it is done.

Temptation is seldom good.

Temptations are attractions that cause us to step off the path being traveled and pursue new attractions. With enticing and usually unfulfilled promises, temptations sidetrack us from our main path or objective.

Temptations promise fun, excitement, and pleasure and generally center around what God provides for our benefit and enjoyment. When used as God originally planned, these experiences will benefit us—and others. The nature of temptation, however, suggests that we twist and distort God's gift for personal benefit and private pleasure—no matter the cost to others.

A surprising discovery is made, usually too late, that the more one attempts to satisfy the appetites of temptation, the more the appetites demand. They can never be filled. They reach out, consuming everything in their way. Eventually the embraced temptation, now become sin, consumes all of a person's focus, time, and energy.

Over and over scriptures tells us the same truth—Make no mistake, though they promise fun, when yielded to, temptations always lead to sin, spiritual death, and separation from God.

Each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death. (James 1:14–15)

Journal: Record one such incident when you yielded to a temptation to be selfish. What was its effect on you? On others?

Bible Study

Remember: complete the Bible Study sections before you read this chapter or section; complete the journal as you work through the material.

Read Luke 4:1–13 then answer questions 1 and 2:

1. Who tempted Jesus? Jesus was able to resist the temptations by quoting scripture (see verses 4, 8, 12). How many times was Jesus tempted?

2. Who brings temptation to us? What happens when we resist?

3. Read 1 Corinthians 10:13 and answer, What will God do in our behalf when temptation comes?

Are there any new or unique temptations the devil can bring to us?

4. Read James 1:12–15 and answer, What will God do when we stand the test (are victorious over temptation)? Does God ever tempt anyone? What is the pattern of events that follow the yielding to temptation?

5. Read 1 Thessalonians and answer, How should a Christian treat evil?

6. Read 2 Chronicles 20:15 and answer, Who will help us fight our battles?

7. Read Ephesians 6:10–18. The Bible tells us that several tools are provided to help us be victorious when faced with Satan and temptation. What are these and what is their function?

Does Temptation Have a Purpose?

Most persons believe properly that a temptation is always harmful. Some even believe that the temptation itself is sin. But there is more to temptation than first meets the eye.

When instructing Christians about the state of the world in which they live, and the attitude toward that world that Christians should have, James says,

My brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of any kind, consider it nothing but joy, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance; and let endurance have its full effect, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking in nothing” (James 1:2–4 RSV; emphasis added)

Journal: What do you think about the idea of being thankful for temptations?

While Jesus instructs us to ask God to keep us from temptation (Matthew 6:13), how we respond to temptation can be growth producing. Temptation in and of itself is not sin. To accept the idea that it is can defeat a Christian.
To be tempted is not to sin.
Yielding to temptation is.

Journal—Explain this difference in your own words:

Actually, temptation, as Peter tells us, may have a purpose. “All kinds of trials … have come so that your faith … may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed” (1 Peter 1:6–7). The Greek word translated as trials (testing, temptation) originally had a positive meaning similar to what an athlete experiences when preparing for competition. Testing is for the improvement and the perfecting of strength, stamina, speed, and skill. The more a muscle or skill is put to the test, the stronger and more defined it becomes. This same word is also used when referring to the refining or purifying of something of value. Gold is refined (tested) to remove the impurities and make it more valuable. This is the reason for the joy that both James and Peter describe.

Journal: Relate a time when pain produced growth in your life.

Testing, of course, is never easy. It is seldom cause for immediate rejoicing. With testing may come pain and suffering. There are not too many healthy persons around who enjoy pain, yet athletes commonly say, “no pain: no gain.” The pain for gain comes in the stretching and strengthening of muscle and power. It better prepares the competitor for the competition. Pain can lay the foundation to help the Christian stand more confidently in the strength, power, and knowledge that Jesus Christ gives. It prepares the Christian to better understand and trust the promise of God:

Never will I leave you;
never will I forsake you.
(Hebrews 13:5)

Journal: Give some examples of natural desires perverted by Satan:

Temptation is used by Satan to entrap and defeat Christians, leading to the loss of freedom and life. For believers, freedom means enjoying the blessings God provides in a way that brings benefit to all. Satan blocks that freedom, forcing the enslaved to distort the good God gives to our use.

Temptation, then, has a dual nature. First, Satan uses our natural desires in perverted ways to defeat Christians.

Second, God allows temptations so that Christians might, through the presence of the power promised by Jesus Christ, grow stronger and deeper in their faith in God's sovereignty and in their trust in God's wisdom.

A Measure of Growth

While driving the US interstate highway system one sees small green and white reflecting signs at regular intervals. Truckers have various names for these signs, yard markers, sticks, and, of course, mile markers. These signs are placed one mile apart and help motorists identify their progress, location in time of trouble, and the distance to the next exit or town.

Christians, too, need markers to identify their location as well as their growth toward Christian maturity. Temptations can serve as markers for our life's journey. If no markers are passed—or if it is taking a very long time to get from one to the next, one might assume that no progress is being made—one is coasting.

There are two dangers in coasting. Though it seems to be a pleasant experience, there is little progress. Second, one who coasts is powerless to go forward when the road starts uphill.

The Apostle Paul, a worthy model, said: “But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:13–14). Before and after his conversion, Paul was neither a drifter nor a coaster. He did not rest on past accomplishments or past error. He aggressively pursued what he felt was God's will for his life. Drifting was not Paul's problem.

Temptation comes to every person. No one is or ever has been exempt from temptation—not even Jesus Christ.

To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps.
He committed no sin,
and no deceit was found in his
mouth.
(1 Peter 2:22)

Journal: Faith that is not tested is a faith that is not worth being tested. What do you think about this statement? Would you rather be tested, with the risk of failure, and succeed, or not be tested at all?

The assumption of the scriptures is that everyone will be tested. Scripture understands temptation as a fact of life—the Bible's focus is on dealing with temptation.

All Christians, growing in their understanding of faith and in their obedience to the word of God, will face temptation. Paul writes to the Corinthian believers with the assumption that each one will be tested—“But when you are tempted” (1 Corinthians 10:13—emphasis added). Paul did not say you might be tempted. Satan desires to seduce every person.

Journal—Ask yourself, If the temptation were taking place today, how might the temptations be different?

Bible Study

The Temptation of Jesus

Read the story of Jesus' temptation in the wilderness; you will find it in Luke 4:1–13.

Immediately following his baptism, Jesus went into the desert. After a lengthy period of fasting, during a time of great physical weakness, Jesus was tempted three times by Satan. Each time Jesus responds with scripture.

Write a modern-day paraphrase of this pivotal moment in Jesus' life and ministry. What is a counterpart in your life to each of the temptations?

Observations about Temptation

• One of the first observations is that the temptations came to Jesus after a spiritual experience.

We all enjoy the exciting getting-to-the-top-of-the-mountain experiences. But where do you go after reaching the top? The natural and perhaps necessary emotional letdown that occurs after such moments are times of great vulnerability. As we question the reason we are unable to sustain such great spiritual moments, we are easily tempted to question the entire experience as illusory.

• Second, observe that temptation always comes when we are most vulnerable.

Jesus was hungry after his forty-day fast, so the first temptation is directed at Jesus' hunger. This is the same Jesus who later heals the blind and the crippled. This temptation is not beyond Jesus' abilities to perform, but Jesus is cautious and does not take lightly his power. Jesus also indicates that there are things more important than our own physical needs and desires.

• Third, observe that temptation is always to something that is within our power.

We are never tempted beyond our ability to perform or to resist. The other two temptations from Satan could have resulted in some thrilling experiences. After all, who has not desired power over others? Who wouldn't like to be able to move a mountain or have the personal power to heal someone? Also, God promises to protect us. Why not test those promises? Satan knows our needs and desires. He tailors temptations specifically for us, But these temptations are abuses of God's love and provision.

Journal: Do I know enough scripture to cope with the difficulties, challenges, and temptations of life? If not, what am I going to do about it?

• Fourth, Jesus faces every temptation with a scripture.

Each scripture Jesus chose demonstrates insight into God's greater plan. Yielding to temptation may provide momentary thrill but leads to devastating payoffs.

As a boy Jesus grew up learning scripture. He learned and memorized them just as all of the other Jewish boys of his time. Scripture is God's word written down by human beings under the direction and inspiration of the Holy Spirit of God. Jesus' authority is expressed through the powerful word of God. He does not perform any fancy tricks. He simply sets an example for us to follow. His reply to Satan at each temptation is, “It is written,” followed by scripture.

As scripture references, it is important that believers know that God promises

• always to be with them (see Hebrews 13:5);
• never to allow a temptation to come that is too big to be handled (1 Corinthians 10:13 and Psalm 34:7);
• to provide a way of escape, after the believer has demonstrated a willingness to trust God (1 Corinthians 10:13 and Psalm 34:7); and
• to give life more abundantly (John 10:10).

God—our Tempter?

One line of argument follows this track: if one of the original meanings of testing or temptation is positive, and if the Christian should “count it all joy” when the different kinds of temptations are successfully faced, then certainly God must be the author of temptation. Satan certainly desires that we arrive at that conclusion.

There is, however, no truth in it. James again provides help. “When tempted, no one should say, ‘God is tempting me.’ For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone” (James 1:13). In fact, the Bible describes God by saying

Exalt the LORD our God and worship at his holy mountain, for the LORD our God is holy.
(Psalm 99:9)

God's holiness and purity cannot tolerate the sinful and impure.

Journal: What is the one truth of this section of the book that I think is most important for me? Why?

God is not a human being, that he should lie, or a mortal, that he should change his mind.
Has he promised, and will he not do it?
Has he spoken, and will he not fulfill it?
(Numbers 23:19, NRSV)

God can do nothing against God's own nature. God is not the author of temptation.

God—our Protection

Testing produces and measures strength. Yet there is more to this truth that needs exploration. Scripture and experience also teach us that our strength is never enough. Our ability to resist temptation is not in our own prowess, strength of mind, or spiritual agility.

God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. (Psalm 46:1)

Any strength we have to resist temptation must be enhanced and augmented by the power of God.

One of the most important promises in the Bible states

No testing has overtaken you that is not common to everyone. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tested beyond your strength, but with the testing he will also provide the way out so that you may be able to endure it.
(1 Corinthians 10:13, NRSV)

God does not allow Satan to tempt any Christian more than he or she will be able to bear.

Journal: What does this teaching mean to me? How can it change my life?

The secret to the successful resistance of temptation lies in our faith in God and in our trust of God's word. “Thus says the LORD to you: ‘Do not fear or be dismayed at this great multitude; for the battle is not yours, but God's’ ” (2 Chronicles 20:15, NRSV). God is on our side. When we trust God, Satan is unable to overpower any believer.

There are tragic stories of persons with a great Christian witness who succumb to Satan's bombardment. Though they know many scriptures, they fall prey. Though they often inspire others, they find themselves vulnerable. Why? What happened?

They trust in their own resources. They do not intend to go astray. Their devotional life weakens; less time is given to prayer and Bible reading. Paul warns, “So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don't fall!” (1 Corinthians 10:12).

God's Word—our Armor

We must always be on guard. The Bible often describes life as a battle between good and evil. In Ephesians 6:10–18 Paul compares the tools God provides us with the armament of a soldier—armament that is ever ready and well-maintained.

• Belt of truth. It is important to fill your mind with truth. Reading the Bible daily, as well as other good Christian books, is a must for keeping all the parts of our Christian life in proper balance.

Journal: How will I put on the belt of truth?

• Breastplate of righteousness. Obedient behavior on part of a child pleases the parent. God wants us obey his teachings and commandments. Our good behavior is credited to us as righteousness.

Journal: How will I put on the breastplate of righteousness?

• Shoes of the gospel of peace. The word gospel literally means good news. Christians bear good news wherever they go. Good news is seen in a believer's behavior and words. Good news—the footprints a person leaves behind.

Journal: How will I put on the shoes of peace?

• Shield of faith. Faith is trust—complete trust in God through Jesus Christ. It is impossible to defeat temptations in our strength. We need a higher, more powerful authority. Jesus' presence in our lives is our defense.

Journal: How will I put on the shield of faith?

• Helmet of salvation. Salvation results from inviting Jesus into our lives and receiving forgiveness for our sins. Salvation entitles us to become children of God. Be thankful daily for the salvation God has provided through Jesus Christ.

Journal: How will I wear the helmet of salvation?

• Sword of the Spirit. Our sword is God's word. Jesus quoted it when faced with temptation. Memorize important verses and then quote them when faced with temptation. Satan will hear and flee unable to gain victory over you—“Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you” (James 4:7, NRSV).

Journal: How will I put on the sword of the Spirit?

• Prayer. One way to think of prayer is as a discussion about the battle with the commander-in-chief. No soldier enters any battle without orders. God, our commander, knows the battle plan and the outcome of the fight. The victory is already won.

For the love of God is this, that we obey his commandments. And his commandments are not burdensome, for whatever is born of God conquers the world. And this is the victory that conquers the world, our faith. Who is it that conquers the world but the one who believes that Jesus is the Son of God?” (1 John 5:3–5, NRSV)

Through prayer we understand God's words of instruction and assurance that we read in the Bible. Through prayer we gain confidence to “keep on keeping on.” These tools are ours. We need all of them. Use them and we are victorious over the temptations Satan brings.

Journal: What do I need to do about my prayer life?

Chapter Two
Will I Still Sin?

Introduction

The question that serves as the title for this chapter is a vital question, one that every Christian asks, and one that the Bible answers.

Picture this: a cow stretches its neck through or over a barbed wire fence to reach the grass on the other side. Behind the cow is a fenced pasture of lush, clean, green. The grass next to the road is covered with dust and the fumes of passing cars and trucks.

The scene makes no sense, yet it provides a few lessons to learn, and a context for this chapter—God provides everything we need for a complete, full, and happy life. Satan only provides cheap imitations of God's blessings.

Bible Study

Remember: Complete the Bible Study sections before you read this chapter or section; complete the journal as you work through the material in this chapter.

Read Galatians 5:16–25 and then answer these questions:

1. What two powers are in conflict?

2. List a few of the acts of a sinful person?

Will such persons go to heaven?

3. List a few of the characteristics of a Christian.

4. Read 1 John 5:17 and answer this question, What does the Bible say about wrong behavior?

5. In Matthew 5:21–22 and 27–28, what does Jesus say to suggest that our attitudes toward others are as important as our actions?

6. What does the Bible say (James 4:17) about knowing the right thing to do but still doing what is wrong?

7. What is the title Isaiah (1:4) says is given to a nation that turns its back on God?

8. What does Revelation 2:4–5 say we do if we forsake our relationship with God

9. Does God ever wink at sin? (Exodus 34:6–7)

10. What will God do when we confess our sin? (1 John 1:9)

11. How do we know that God's love will never be withdrawn from us? (Jeremiah 31:3)

12. According to Isaiah 59:2, what separates us from God?

Who is responsible for separation?

13. According to 1 John 2:1, is it possible to live without sinning?

Who will speak to God on our behalf if we do sin?

Paul warns us,

Live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature. For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit is contrary to the sinful nature. They are in conflict with each other. (Galatians 5:16–17a)

The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissension, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.
(Galatians 5:19–21)

After this warning, Paul describes the results of living by the Spirit in obedience to God.

But the fruit the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Jesus Christ have crucified the sinful nature with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.
(Galatians 5:22–25)

A person who focuses on living obediently as the only proper response to God's love is able to resist the cheap, impure, and empty enticements of Satan. The question that began this chapter—“Will I still sin?”—becomes decreasingly important. The goal of the Christian life is to live without sin. The power of God, the salvation of Jesus Christ, and the presence of the Holy Spirit, in league with the believer, make that goal achievable.

Journal: Do I think it is possible for me to live without sin?

Sin Defined

“All wrongdoing is sin” (1 John 5:17). Before providing a definitive answer to the original question—“Will I still sin?”—it helps to have a definition of sin and a wider understanding of its meaning in scripture.

Several different Hebrew and Greek words are used in the Bible for the word sin. In each case, the concept of sin is treated seriously, never in a light or flippant manner. Whatever more specific or special meanings exist in scripture, sin is always an awkward and tragic act, a state of being that separates the created from the Creator.

Some of the meanings include
• deviation from what is good and right
• error
• to miss the target
• rebellion against God and God's word
• defiance of God and God's will
• willful disobedience
• trespass
• contempt for and violation of law
• sacrilege
• wrongdoing against persons
• wrongdoing against God
• failure to do what is right

There are two basic kinds of sin—sins of omission and sins of commission. Sins of commission are acts committed by choice as the result of a person's own will. This would include such things as murder, robbery, slander, gossip, taking God's name in vain, fornication, hatred, bigotry, lying, and self indulgence. There is an intentionality about such sin; the act is committed in the mind and then carried out. It is a spiritual equivalent to the modern legal idea of “premeditated murder.”

Jesus condemned the act and the planning of the act—whether carried out or not.

You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, ‘Do not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.’ But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother will be subject to judgment.
(Matthew 5:21–22) He also said, “You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” (Matthew 5:27–28)

There are also sins of omission.This refers to not doing something that we know we should do. Perhaps the best illustration of this would be not helping another person who needs help even though you have the power and resources to do so.

To sin is to refuse to recognize God as God and not to accept God's word as the source of wisdom about how life is to be lived. In fact, at its most fundamental level, sin means that persons set themselves up as god. The original temptation in the Garden of Eden supports this understanding, for Satan said to Eve

You will not die; for God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.
(Genesis 3:4–5, NRSV, emphasis added)

When persons judge God's teachings and commandments, ruling them inferior to their own personal wisdom and desires, they set themselves up as god. Whenever persons judge others—or anything—by some personal standard, any standard other than the one God gave in the person of Jesus Christ, they set themselves up as god.

Journal: Which seems to be the prevalent kind of sin in my life?

Journal: Have I ever thought of myself as god, or acted as if I were? What happened?

The Problem

A necessary prelude in asking Jesus Christ to come into your life is asking for the forgiveness of your sin. A sincere request is always honored; God is eager to forgive us. God removes your sin “as far as the east is from the west” (Psalm 103:12). We begin new life in Christ with a clean record.

In the chapter on temptation we observed that every person is tempted. What happens if a person falls for the temptations of Satan? There is a word used to describe this—backsliding. Literally it means to fall away from one's faith, to return to former habits and behavior.

Journal: Have I asked for forgiveness? Do I live as if I am forgiven?

The Old Testament tells of God's love for the nation of Israel—the chosen people of God. Clearly scripture describes important moments when the people of God are obedient to God and enjoy a warm relationship with the Lord.

It is good to praise the Lord and make music to your name, O Most High, to proclaim your love in the morning and your faithfulness at night. For you make me glad by your deeds, O Lord; I sing for joy at the works of your hands.
(Psalm 92:1–4)
But we also read,

Ah, sinful nation,
a people loaded with guilt,
a brood of evildoers, children given to corruption!

They have forsaken the Lord;
they have spurned the Holy One of Israel
and turned their backs on him.
(Isaiah 1:4)

The concept of backsliding is also found in the New Testament. Jesus says, “Many will turn away from the faith and will betray and hate each other, and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Because of the increase of wickedness, the love of most will grow cold” (Matthew 24:10–12). Paul states, “But now that you know God—or rather are known by God—how is it that you are turning back to those weak and miserable principles? Do you wish to be enslaved by them all over again?” (Galatians 4:9; see also Revelation 2:4–5.)

There are those who say that it is impossible for Christians to backslide. They point to scriptures that deal with God's sovereign ability to keep those who are committed to God. One such scripture passage is found in John 10. Specifically, such advocates point to verses 27–30:

My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one can snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father's hand.

This scripture does show the sovereignty of God—a key assumption of Scripture. No one is equal to God. God has unmatched authority and power. But there is another part of God's character that applies—God is perfect love. Perfect love provides for needs, even before a need is known. Perfect love seeks to bring joy to the person who is the object of that love. Because of this, God allows us to make choices. This is the doctrine of free will. These two aspects of God's personality only appear to be in conflict with each other. Actually they are complementary. A shepherd leads rather than drives the sheep from behind. However, sheep will be sheep. Sometimes a sheep would get so involved eating the grass near the path that it lingered behind or wandered off. The sheep became easy prey for predators or might get lost or tangled in briars.

We are just like sheep. The Bible contains the stories of many people who chose to exercise their free will. Adam and Eve chose to eat fruit from the forbidden tree. David chose to commit adultery with Bathsheba and sent her husband Uriah into the fiercest battle to be most certainly killed. Peter chose to deny that he knew Jesus on the night of Jesus' trial.

When a sheep is missing the good shepherd looks for that sheep. The shepherd calls out hoping the sheep will hear the familiar voice and respond. The sheep's response guides the shepherd to the lost sheep. It is important that the sheep respond to the voice of the shepherd.

Journal: What faithless choices have I made that changed my relationship with God, requiring forgiveness?

Once again the Bible attempts to get at a truth greater than can be readily expressed—the truth is both/and. God is sovereign and exercises that sovereignty in our freedom. God loves us, seeks us, desires us, dies for us—we are free to respond in any way to such a vulnerable God. We can choose, like the cow, to cut our neck on barbed wire to get to the lesser quality grass, or we can, like the lost sheep, respond and be found by the Great Shepherd of the sheep who risks the ninety and nine to find the one.

Journal: What is my experience with God? Am I the cow seeking lesser grass or the sheep responding to the shepherd's voice?

Yes, we are able to backslide. Yes, we are able to lose ourselves again after being found. Yes, we are open to seduction and vulnerable through our own egos to Satan's appeal to be godlike. The probability of such loss is in direct proportion to the degree that we remain focused on the love of God expressed in Christ Jesus. One saint said that persons who backslide probably haven't “fore-slid.” The more clearly we see Jesus the more clearly we will see the reality of temptation and sin.

Turn your eyes upon Jesus,
Look full in His wonderful face,
And the things of earth will grow strangely dim
In the light of His glory and grace. [1. Helen H. Lemmel, “Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus” in Worship the Lord Hymnal (Anderson, Ind: Warner Press, 1989), 393.]

Discipline and Rebuke

Several words are used to describe what happens when a person becomes a Christian: conversion, regeneration, saved, and born again are four of the most common. An important truth that ties all four words together is that each requires starting again in a new direction. The new direction is, simply stated, following the directions issued by God, taught and modeled by Jesus Christ.

New believers need to realize that God's instructions are found in the Bible. At times these instructions may seem restrictive and limiting, but they are for our benefit.

Journal: Do I need to start again in a new direction? Am I ready?

When my son was small we lived on a fairly busy street. Because it was dangerous, we instructed him never to cross the street without his mother or myself helping him. We promised to punish him if he disobeyed. He said that he understood our instructions. A few days later I saw him across the street. l asked his mother if she had helped him.

She had not. I asked him if anyone had helped him. The answer was “No.” I was happy that he was not hurt but disappointed that he had not obeyed. Being so young he was not always careful to look for cars and was unable to judge the speed of an oncoming automobile. After talking with him again about our rules and the reasons for the rules, I punished him. Though the punishment hurt at the time, it hurt a lot less than being hit by a speeding car. He was learning that he was responsible for his decisions and he had to accept their consequences.

Journal: What does this story teach me about my life?

The Bible speaks of this situation.

The LORD, the LORD, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin. Yet he does not leave the guilty unpunished.
(Exodus 34:6–7)

The psalmist writes:

If his sons forsake my law, and do not follow my statutes, if they violate my decrees and fail to keep my commands, I will punish their sin with the rod, their iniquity with flogging; but I will not take my love from him, nor will I ever betray my faithfulness. (Psalm 89:30–33)

Discipline may be understood as the act of teaching rules for behavior that protects.

Caution!

Yes, it is possible to trip (call it sin), especially as a young immature believer, but the more you grow in the knowledge and experience of Jesus Christ, the more secure and stable will be your Christian walk. If you do sin, take care of it right away. Confess it. Don't let it linger. Restore your relationship with God before anymore harm. “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9).

Be cautious!

John writes about two kinds of sin: “There is a sin that leads to death … and there is sin that does not lead to death” (1 John 5:16–17). The sin that does not lead to death is the one that leads to feelings of guilt, remorse, and the desire for forgiveness. The conscience is tender and pain is the result of the sin.

Journal: What disciplines do I need in my life if I am to grow strong in my faith?

Those who desire sin more than God discover the “sin that leads to death.” Their conscience is hardened. They ignore God's attempt to deal with them so many times that they no longer sense God's loving correction.

Good News!

The good news is that God's love is never withdrawn from us. “The Lord appeared … saying: ‘I have loved you with an everlasting love’ ” (Jeremiah 31:3). God never changes even as our sin changes us. “But your iniquities have separated you from your God; your sins have hidden his face from you” (Isaiah 59:2).

To assume that a person sins a little every day is wrong and deadly. “My dear children, I write this to you so that you will not sin. But if anybody does sin, we have one who speaks to the Father in our defense—Jesus Christ, the Righteous One” (1 John 2:1). It is clear; we are not doomed to sin a little, or a lot, every day. We do not have to sin at all. “It is God's will that you should be sanctified; that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God; … For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life” (1 Thessalonians 4:3–5, 7). If God calls us to live holy lives then it must be possible.

Here's how

1. Read the Bible at least five minutes every day. Just as the body needs food, so does your spiritual self. The Bible is food for the soul.

2. Pray. Prayer is conversation with God. Prayer does not always have to be formal. Talk with God as you wash your face, stand in the grocery line, or watch a sunset.

3. Fill your mind with good things. Read good Christian books and magazines. Listen to Christian records and tapes. Put up some pictures that help you to focus on God's love through Jesus Christ.

4. Associate with other Christians. You need encouragement as a new Christian. You do not have to forget all of your old friends, but you will be helped by friends who desire the positive things of life.

5. Get rid of and stay away from things that might tempt you. It is foolish to stay close to things that lead you away from God's wonderful love and peace.

6. Attend church regularly. It is important to worship God with other Christians. Get into a Sunday school class that studies the Bible. This is a good place to ask questions about the Bible, life's problems, and your walk with God.

Penalty

In one important sense, the only story in the Bible is the story of the disobedience and sin of people, their need for salvation, and God's willingness to forgive and restore.

We usually do not intend to go against God's will, but there is a human leaning toward disobedience.

To live a holy life means that we are set apart to live as God desires. “If anyone obeys his word, God's love is truly made complete in him. This is how we know we are in him: Whoever claims to live in him must walk as Jesus did” (1 John 2:5–6). The more familiar a person becomes with the word of God, the less room exists for Satan. “But a [righteous person's] delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law [the person] meditates day and night” (Psalm 1:2).

Journal: What is the source of my delight?

There is a little prayer that I often use. “Thank you, Lord, for being in my heart. Amen.” When I say it I am reminded of who is in control of my life; I am expressing gratitude for what God has done for me; and I am reminding myself to let God's love flow through me toward others—especially those I have trouble liking. I suggest that you get in the habit of saying this prayer fifty times a day. Do it when you first wake up and while you are getting your breakfast—many times each day. Say it when you feel yourself getting upset with someone. Make it as normal to your daily routine as your next breath. It will help you sense God's wonderful helping presence in your life.

Journal: Here's my agenda for spiritual growth and maturity:

<>B>Chapter Three
Doubts

Introduction

There is a familiar child's story about a little red engine that had to pull a heavy load up a hill. The other train engines laughed when they heard that the little red one had been chosen for the important job. They did not think that he could do it. As the little engine began his run up the steep hill he said to himself, “I think I can, I think I can, I think I can.”

There was some doubt even by the little red engine that he was up to the challenge, but he was able to pull the load up the hill. All the way down the other side of the hill he was heard to say as he puffed out of sight, “I thought I could, I thought I could.”

All of us face doubt. Sometimes doubt spurs us on; sometimes doubt stymies growth and progress. One thing is sure, doubt seldom leaves us the same as we were before it arrived.

Bible Study

NOTE: Complete the Bible Study sections before you read each chapter or section; complete the journal as you work through the material.

1. Using Psalm 23:4, explain why Christians should not let fear dominate their lives?

2. We sometimes hear of “persons of great faith.” In Matthew 17:19–20, Jesus tells us that we should have faith at least as big as a _______________ .

3. Isaiah 59:2 identifies what separates a person from God as _____________ . Who causes the separation?

4. Read 2 Timothy 3:16–17 and list some of the uses of scripture.

5. According to 2 Peter 1:3–4 of what benefit is the Christian's knowledge of God?

6. John 14:12 provides the answer to this question, What are the limits on our ability to do the things that God wants us to do?

7. How do we know that God cares about us? Read Psalm 139:13–18, then rewrite it in your own words.

8. Read Deuteronomy 7:9 and Hebrews 10:23, 35–36: What is our assurance that God will keep his covenant with us?

What is Doubt?

To doubt means wavering or uncertainty regarding an opinion or belief. Synonyms for doubt are skeptical, suspicious, mistrustful, lack of confidence, lack of conviction, questions, apprehension, even fear.

Doubt is often equated with sin. Doubt, in many minds, means that a person has lost faith. It is, however, as natural to experience times of doubt as it is to fill one's lungs with air. Doubt may be important to the growth of faith, but like freedom, doubt carried to the extreme results in loss of faith, even sin.

A little child can be coaxed to jump off a table or set of stairs into the arms of a loving parent. The jump is dangerous.

The child sees the dangers but focuses on the outstretched arms of a waiting parent. This child knows faith. Doubters, unlike the child, see the dangers and let the dangers dominate their attention.

Watch the child who has just jumped and been caught. There is a giggle, a snuggle, a big hug, and the statement, “Let's do it again.” On the other hand, the doubter who doesn't overcome the doubt still cowers, afraid, never knowing the thrill of the jump, the ecstasy of the catch.

Types of Doubts

Doubt is not a single, darkened glass; it is a cloudy prism. There are several different types of doubt. These are listed to help in the recognition of doubt so that faith might be called to lead us through doubt.

• Sometimes doubts are born of fear.

We always desire the best for ourselves. Whenever a new challenge, decision, or direction comes along, we desire to choose what is best. But how do we make choices? What will happen if the wrong choice is made? Is the decision retractable or is it permanent?

Fear can set in and bring us to a point of inaction. This fear often results from doubting our own judgment. The result of this doubt is that we do not trust God, our own intuition, or the set of facts we may have gathered. Doubts born of fear can have a devastating effect. They often break down our self-confidence. When confidence breaks down, we are tempted to “set up camp,” not wanting to take a risk. No advance is made in life because we are afraid of making the wrong choice.

A reading of Psalm 23:4 reminds us that

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I will fear no evil, for you are with me;
your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

• Sometimes doubt is born of unbelief.

It is quite impossible to act on faith if you believe you cannot trust someone or something. How can a little child feel trust about jumping into the arms of a stranger? The child would have had no prior experience to know the voice or the ability of the stranger to catch his or her hurtling body. When we have not come to the place where we want to trust our eternal destiny to God, we will not be able to obey God's loving commands as expressed through the Bible. Read Matthew 17:19–20.

• Doubts are also born of disobedience.

Adam and Eve hid from God in the Garden of Eden after their disobedient act of eating fruit from the forbidden tree. Their disobedience separated them from God. “But your iniquities have separated you from your God” (Isaiah 59:2). God still cares about us, but we are afraid our disobedience will be found out and thus are afraid to go to God.

• Doubts can be born of a lack of knowing the facts.

I like me. I do not like to hurt me. Invite me to sit down on a chair and I will always turn and look the chair over before putting my body weight on it. If the chair looks to be broken in any way my response will probably be, “No, thank you, I believe that I would rather stand.”

It seems that toys and many other things you buy these days require that the buyer assemble them before using. How many times do we open the package, look at the parts and pieces, discard the instructions because they look confusing, try to put the thing together, then throw up our hands, laugh and say, “When all else fails, read the instructions?”

The Bible is God's instruction manual concerning life. Too often we try to take on the challenges of life without first reading the instructions.

Sometimes we even think that the Bible is too big or too confusing. We may wish that the verses were more clearly organized, but we miss the point. The Bible is well organized. The narratives are arranged as they happened in the lives of the people who lived before, during, and after God's gift of a perfect example in the person of Jesus Christ. “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness, so that the man [or woman] of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work” (2 Timothy 3:16–17).

Develop a systematic program for reading. You do not need to read from Genesis to Revelation, but you should read a book at a time. You might want to start with the Gospel of John or Mark, then Philippians, Ephesians, Psalms, and Proverbs. Your pastor will be happy to suggest a good reading program.

• Doubts may be born of lack of experience.

I asked my ten-year-old daughter to do something the other day. Her response was, “But daddy, I can't do it.” Children often say, “I can't do it.” Sometimes the challenge is too difficult for a child, but usually “I can't do it” means that they do not know how. I did not want the word “can't” to be a part of her vocabulary, so I talked to her about it. Her response, punctuated with tears was, “But Daddy I really can't.” I showed her how; then watched as she tried it. The first time she made a mistake and was not able to complete the task. I showed her where she went wrong, then watched as she tried again. The second time she got it right. Several days later she came running to me to tell me that she was having no trouble with the task. She was so pleased with her new skill.

Jesus knew that his followers needed courage to tackle the tough tasks. “I tell you the truth, anyone who has faith in me will do what I have been doing. He will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father” (John 14:12).

• Doubts may be born of a poor evaluation of one's own self-worth.

Generally speaking, we have trouble trusting God when we do not trust ourselves. We do not trust ourselves when we do not like ourselves. The reasoning is simple: since God created everything, how can we trust someone who made us inferior, less than we would like to be.

Most of us are pretty good at playing the old “let's compare” game. The rules are simple, compare your own appearance or ability with someone who, in your opinion, has a superior appearance or talent. For instance, I think my nose is too big! When I see another person who has a more desirable nose I feel inferior.

Such thinking does not take into account the wonderful care of God.

For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
(Psalm 139:13–14)

We clearly see that God knows us—our abilities and potential. More exciting that this, we are never out of God's thoughts.

• Finally, doubts creep in when we are physically or mentally run down.

Negative physical or mental conditions lead to a heightened awareness of our own needs. Such a focus causes us to quit caring about others. This, in turn, kindles a critical spirit when others do not move quickly enough to meet our needs. Eventually this negativism separates us from those around, leaving feelings of doubt that no one cares—not even God.

We need to take proper care of our minds and our bodies. We need to be careful about what we allow to enter our minds whether through books, magazines, movies, TV shows, conversation, and other media. We must also be careful to get enough rest, exercise, eat properly, and avoid abusive substances. “Don't you know that you yourselves are God's temple and that God's Spirit lives in you? If anyone destroys God's temple, God will destroy him; for God's temple is sacred, and you are that temple” (1 Corinthians 3:16–17).

How to Win over Doubt

Doubts, unchecked, lead to denial. Denial causes us to separate ourselves from God. The best way to keep this from happening is to express faith in God's faithfulness to us. God never withdraws love from us; it is we who draw apart from God. Someone once said, “Who draws nigh to God one step through doubtings dim, God will advance a mile in blazing light to him.”

Matthew 14 tells of Peter taking a giant step of faith. However, while walking on the water to meet Jesus, doubt visited him, and he began to sink. When Peter realized what was happening, he got serious about his trust in Jesus. “Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. ‘You of little faith,’ he said, ‘why did you doubt?’ ”

Doubts can bring us to defeat or to growth and victory.

Journal: What are my doubts? To which category of doubt do they belong?

During a losing streak, a basketball coach will have the players go back and practice the basics: pass, dribble, rebound, shoot, and run simple plays. Once those skills are mastered confidence begins to return. Soon they are playing up to their potential.

Journal: Read Matthew 14. Who are you in the story? Peter or the other apostles? Peter before or after taking his eyes off of Jesus?

There are seven basics for having a growing, victorious Christian faith. The mastering of these fundamentals will bring confidence to our lives.

1. Establish and maintain the habit of reading the Bible everyday. The Bible is the record of God's faithful dealings with those who have trusted. Read at least five to ten minutes each day.

2. Reflect on what you have read. Let God speak to you through both the printed word and the Holy Spirit. It is the Spirit who helps us interpret what we read in the Bible.

3. Pray. Prayer is our chance to have conversation with God. We can ask for things, pray for others, ask for understanding and wisdom, and give thanks for God's faithfulness and care toward us. It is through prayer that our relationship with God is strengthened.

4. Seek a spiritual mentor. Persons older in their faith have often faced some of the same doubts and problems we face. They have learned God's faithfulness because they trusted when the dark night of doubt was the most intense. Explain your doubts and ask them to pray with you. Everyone needs a mentor. Paul sought out Ananias after being converted (Acts 9:10–19). Barnabas was a mentor to John Mark, the young man who later wrote the Gospel of Mark
(Acts 15:36–39).

5. Keep a spiritual diary. Daily record what you have read in the Bible, not only the verses, but also the insights you gain. Record your prayer requests and the way God answers your prayers. Use your journal to reflect on your life as a Christian. Record important events that happen to you. All of life is from God; God is at work in your entire life, not only the “spiritual” part. It is exciting to see God at work in your life. Go back and read it periodically, especially when doubt pays a visit.

6. Tell someone else of God's love. Tell of the way you feel God's presence and encouragement.

7. Express gratitude to God for sustaining love. Do it often. God lives in our praise.

These activities will keep your focus on God and chase away the fog of doubt. Remember, joy comes when the dark night is pierced with the morning light.

Journal: Who do I know to mentor me?

For his anger is but for a moment; his favor is for a lifetime, Weeping may linger for the night, but joy comes with the morning.
(Psalm 30:5, NRSV)

Standing firm in your faith when engulfed in doubt has a way of strengthening faith as nothing else can. Turn the time of doubt into a time of growth.

Finally, “Know therefore that the LORD your God is God; he is the faithful God, keeping his covenant of love to a thousand generations of those who love him and keep his commands” (Deuteronomy 7:9).

“So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised” (Hebrews 10:35–36).

Journal: Who needs my encouragement? What is the best way to share with this person?

Journal: What will be my plan for keeping these disciplines?

“Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful” (Hebrews 10:23).

Chapter Four
Habits

Introduction

A habit can be our greatest helper or heaviest burden. It is always at our command but usually acts without a command. In two or three lessons it can master most any task. Only with concentrated effort can a habit be changed or broken.

Manage habits and you will find them to be helpful servants. If you don't master them, they will master you, and it will prove to be a driving and merciless master. It is either a stepping-stone leading to victorious overcoming, or a stumbling block bringing you to total ruin. Control it or it will control you—left alone a habit can be your destruction.

Bible Study

Remember. Complete the Bible Study sections before you read each chapter or section; complete the journal as you work through the material.

Read Proverbs 5:22–23 and answer the first two questions.

1. What ensnares a wicked person, or any person for that matter?

2. What causes that person to die?

3. In John 8:34, what does the Bible say about a person who sins? _____________________ and what are the rewards of sin?

4. What is the gift God wants to give (Romans 6:23)?

5. What does truth do for us (John 8:31–32)?

6. According to 1 Thessalonians 5:22, how is the Christian to treat evil?

7. Why are Christians (“those who are in Christ Jesus”) not condemned (Romans 8:1–2)?

8. According to Romans 8:5–8, what are the answers to these two questions:

What is the mind of a sinful person on?

How does the mind of a sinful person treat God?

9. How is a person to bring about change or drop bad habits? (Romans 12:2)

10. Who must assume the responsibility for the development of godly habits? (1 Timothy 4:7)

11. According to Galatians 5:1, who sets us free from bad habits and sin?

How should we treat this freedom?

12. What command is found in the Bible for the parents and teachers of children? (Proverbs 22:6)

Journal: When it comes to my habits, am I or they in control?

Habits

I talked with a group of college students one time who told of a habit of one of their professors. He cleared his throat so often during his lecture that the students kept record of his habit and compared notes with each other.

We all have habits. Some may be very simple responses that cause little notice. Others can be very annoying and attract a lot of attention. Some habits assist in getting things done while others block advancement toward a goal.

Habits Defined

A habit is the tendency of a person to respond in a predetermined and practiced way to a certain stimulus. It is usually such an automatic response that the person is not aware of the response. It is a person's usual way of doing something.

How Habits Develop

We are constantly faced with new situations and new challenges. Each requires a response. Many times we have no previous similar experience from which to design a response. Our mind quickly scans its memory capacity, then designs a response. The more often we face similar situations, the more often we repeat past pleasant responses. Then we are well along in the establishment of a new habit.

Other persons have a great influence on the development of our habits. A little child learns to respond to various situations by imitating parents. Thus the habits of the parents are perpetuated through the children. As the child grows older, others begin to be an influence. Teachers, babysitters, pastors, friends—all provide many examples that influence the development of habits. The primary word in the development of any habit is practice. The more an activity or behavior is practiced, the greater the tendency that behavior pattern has to becoming a habit.

A baseball player does not have time to try to figure out what to do when a ball is hit. A skillful player has practiced the moves so often that the response is almost automatic—catch the ball in the glove, throw the ball to the proper player to make an out or keep the opposing player from advancing. There is no time to stop and ponder what to do. Practice prepares the player to do the right thing at the right time and without delay. Playing baseball, then, is a matter of having the right set of habits in place for use when a specific stimulus occurs.

As stated above, the key word in developing any habit is practice. Practice implies first doing something, then repeating that action until that action becomes second nature. Some habits stay with us beyond their real usefulness. At one time they may have been important.

• Some habits are very simple.

When I was a small child I used to make sipping sounds when we would drive past a root beer stand. I couldn't talk very well at the time, but I was able to make my wishes known. It became a habit. My parents knew what to expect when we passed any root beer stand. Now that I am grown, I've dropped the habit of making sipping sounds but I still like draft root beer.

Journal: Who are the “authors” of my habits?

• Sometimes we plan for the development of a habit.

When I first began to jog it was very difficult. I kept asking myself why I was punishing myself when I could be much more comfortable in bed. (I am an early morning jogger.) It took about two or three months for me to begin to enjoy jogging. Now it is a pleasant part of my daily routine that has both physical and mental benefits.

It may not be the most pleasant activity at first, but we do it because we know that eventually it will be of benefit.

• Some habits are the result of the created cravings of the body or mind.

This is the case with those who have a drug or tobacco habit. They have used certain chemical substances repeatedly until their bodies or minds crave that chemical. The repeated introduction of certain chemical substances causes the body or the mind to build a dependency on that chemical. An intense message is sent out when deprived of that chemical. This is a highly complex habit. Several other problems beside the chemical dependency are usually present. The substances of tobacco, alcohol, and illegal drugs create habits that destroy one of the most magnificent creations of God—the human body. Whether it is tobacco smoke that destroys our lungs or a brain that has been altered by alcohol or illegal drugs, the destruction of our bodies causes God great grief. “For people are slaves to whatever masters them” (2 Peter 2:19, NRSV). We are created for God's pleasure and to have communion with God. The use of and enslavement to harmful chemicals or practices of any kind changes our ability to sense reality. This, then, causes improper responses to situations, to other persons, and to God. The chemicals block our ability to receive all that God wants us to experience.

Habits develop because their action meets some physical or emotional need, because they are part of a work or play routine, or because they are patterned after the actions of another person.

Journal: Who is my master? What habits are in charge of my life?

What Habits do for us

Habits help us respond, almost automatically, when a situation calls for action. Because of the practice, very little is required of the thought processes at the time the action or response is needed. Recognition of the situation is enough to trigger the response. Action is structured along already familiar patterns. Without these pre-programmed responses we might be in trouble.

On the other hand, habits can keep us in hot water.

Habits are helpful when they cause us to do things that are beneficial for our heath. The person who has developed the habit of regular exercise generally enjoys life more than those who do little or no exercise. The benefits include cardio-vascular improvement, endorphin release, calorie burn, and body improvement.

Also, consider the benefits derived from developing the habit of having a regular time of devotions. Establishing and keeping a time for Bible reading, meditation on God's word, and prayer calms the troubled soul, gives direction to life, brings more love, wisdom, understanding, and patience to human relationships. It also helps to reflect the presence of Jesus Christ in our lives. The time spent practicing this habit brings wonderful dividends beyond our expectations.

The psalmist found great comfort and courage through his habit of devotions.

I meditate on it all day long.
Your commands make me wiser than my enemies,
for they are ever with me ….
My heart is set on keeping your decrees to the very end.
(Psalm 119:97–98, 112)

Journal: What helpful habits do I have?

It is only when we know God's word that we are able to live in obedience to it. A paraphrase of Galatians 5:16 might read, So I say, get in the habit of living by the Spirit and you will not fall into the habit of gratifying the desires of the sinful nature.

Right habits can be very beneficial to us.

What Habits do to us

Habits can also be a problem. They can cause us to be slaves. “The evil deeds of a wicked man ensnare him; the cords of his sin hold him fast. He will die for lack of discipline, led astray by his own great folly” (Proverbs 5:22–23).

How often do we see persons who normally use intelligent language to express themselves suddenly change and use swear words when they get upset or angry. Listen to how some persons respond when their thumbs gets smashed, trying to drive a nail into wood. Does the swearing habit raise its ugly head? These automatic responses are used by Satan not only to try to defeat Christians but also to ruin their testimonies. Satan has the uncanny habit of reminding us of our frailties just when we are at our weakest. This often happens right after a hidden sin or bad habit creeps to the surface.

At times even good habits can become a problem. The blind following of a good habit can lead to a lack of understanding and knowledge of why the habit was established in the first place. This often leads to insincere and sloppy practice. It is but a short step to the corruption or the loss of it altogether. This pattern is as old as history itself. It is the story of Israel in the Old Testament. Many allowed their practice of worship to become a habit that lost its meaning. Their sloppy and insincere practice of worship let them wander from God and into trouble, returning to God only after a painful period of living with the consequences of their disobedience.

Many persons have old habits from their sinful past. These habits must be dropped. Continuing bad habits not only enslaves, but also leads to death. Jesus said, “I tell you the truth, everyone who sins is a slave to sin” (John 8:34). Paul tells us that “The wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 6:23).

How to Break a Habit

Habits are very strong. Remember, we often perform them without even realizing it. Of the strength of a habit Jeremiah writes, “Can the Ethiopian change his skin or the leopard its spots? Neither can you do good who are accustomed to doing evil” (Jeremiah 13:23). The good news is that we can change. Paul writes, “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life set me free from the law of sin and death” (Romans 8:1–2).

We often find it difficult to change by ourselves, but Jesus Christ promises to help us. We need to recognize our weakness and call on him. This is done through prayer. Here are a few hints for breaking bad habits.

1. Recognize it/name it.

Pray; ask the Lord to help you identify those habits in your life that need changing. The Lord wants the people of God to be free of any sinful habits that keep them in bondage. God will help in identifying them.

2. Identify what activates the undesired habit.

It may take sensitivity beyond yourself to identify what stimulates the undesired habit. Prayer again is the key. Once you ask the Lord to assist you, listen. Allow a little quiet time after you pray for the answer to come. Then, we should stay away from the thing that activates the wrong habit. Paul tells us to “Avoid every kind of evil” (1 Thessalonians 5:22). God will let us know if this is what we should do through the conviction of the Holy Spirit.

3. Plan a new and positive response to that stimulation.

Prayer again is the path that should be followed. God does not want us to be slaves to sinful habits and is anxious to show us a better way. “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will” (Romans 12:2).

4. Practice the new habit.

It takes time to develop a new habit, especially when it replaces an old habit. Get familiar with the newly desired pattern of response. Practice it. “Train yourself to be godly” (1 Timothy 4:7). You may at first fall back into the old routine, but you do not have to stay with it. God will help you recognize it if you do, then help you desire to put the new habit into effect. Practice having personal or family devotions. Practice saying “I'm sorry”

5. Finally, thank God for helping you have victory.

A heart of gratitude prepares us to receive God's strength and blessings. A heart of gratitude helps put things in proper perspective. I do not have the strength to defeat Satan or bad habits by myself. I must rely on God. And so I say, “But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ” (1 Corinthians 15:57). “It is for freedom that Christ has set us fee. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery” (Galatians 5:1).

Evaluate your own Life

Stop—Reflect on your patterns of response. Who is in control, you or your habits? What kind of habits do you have? Here is a list of questions to begin the process of analysis that can lead to freeing your life from destructive habits:

These are a few of the things that need examining. Trust God to help you identify the habits that need either to be stopped or to be developed.

A Special Caution—
Suffer the Little Children

Jesus took the care of children with high seriousness. Some of his sternest expressions are directed at person who harm children. If you are responsible, in any way, for the care of little children, pay close attention to them.

Train children in the right way,
and when old, they will not stray.
(Proverbs 22:6, NRSV)

We must be cautious about the example we set. A little child will follow our example, developing many of the same habits we have. We must make sure the example we set is a positive one.

Journal:

Do you automatically turn on the TV when nothing else is happening?

Have you established a time for daily devotions?

Is your evening snack because you need the nutrition?

How do you respond when the driver in front of you does something “stupid”?

How do you respond when you hit your thumb instead of the nail with a hammer?

Do you go to church every Sunday?

What do you spend your money on?

Journal: What kind of example do I present for children to copy?

Guarantees?

Becoming a Christian does not guarantee that all of the problems of life will just go away. They won't. As a matter of fact, you will still have most of the ones you have faced plus a few more. That's the bad news. The good news is that you now, as a Christian, have access to the resources and wisdom of God in dealing with those pesky problems.

Living a lifestyle that is pleasing to God will keep you out of some of the difficult situations that you may have tended to get into in the past. You have the opportunity to make changes in your lifestyle. The Bible will give you direction, as will God's Holy Spirit. (The ministry of the Holy Spirit will be explored in Book Five titled The Holy Spirit.)

One thing is sure—if one of those pesky problems, old bad habits, temptations, or doubts causes you to fall, don't give up!

Remember:

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. (1 John 1:9)

Remember, God still loves you and is in the business of restoring people and relationships.